Dear Will,
I am a straight married man and I'm very happy with my life. I had a couple of gay experiences many moons ago and really no immediate desire to have any more at this time, but I find myself waking up to the thought of being with another guy pretty frequently. I have a great sex life at home so it's not the lack of sex either. Is this normal and do other guys have these same thoughts and dreams?
Jack
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Dear Jack,
I believe this is completely normal and many guys have these thoughts, dreams and urges. Even those who have never experienced being with another guy. Only most men who identify as being straight will usually suppress the feelings and never tell anyone. Some will act on it only with a stranger, maybe in a truck stop/book store setting. Those who are comfortable with their sexuality will explore other worlds. Some will like it, others wont. A lot of times the ones who do like it are more attracted to the excitement of doing something "wrong" or getting caught. To each their own. If this is something you want to do, then by all means, do it. It's your body. However, if you are in a happy and loving relationship you may want to take that into consideration first. Is it worth ruining a good thing if she were to find out? If you talk to her about your feelings you never know, she may want to join in.
Will
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