Deep Throat & Gag Reflex

Dear Will,

So I admit I don't have a lot of sexual experience with guys but am very curious and want to explore and try new things.  I had a banana as part of my breakfast.  I was frisky and wanted to see how much of it I could deep throat.  I know I have a bad gag reflex but fit more than half in.  I've always wanted to take down a big cock and I'm wondering what are the tricks to deep throating or controlling your gag reflex?  Maybe I just need practice LOL. (:  Would love any advice or hints.

Charlie

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Dear Charlie,

The first and most important thing to remember is to breathe.  Breathe through your nose, relax, stay in control and most importantly, enjoy.  Practice does make perfect.  Take it slow and work your way up to taking it all.  

In my experience I have found that slow steady motions are better.  When you are working at a faster pace your gag reflex becomes more sensitive.  Plus most guys are turned on by the steady build up of speed and rhythm. 

Another thing that may help is Comfortable Numb Deep Throat Spray.  Just a couple of sprays of this will make your throat numb and temporarily stop your gag reflex long enough to get the job done. (pictured below) I'm sure you can find this product or one like it at any adult store but I have found it at Amazon. 

Happy Sucking,

Will

Link to: Comfortably-Numb-Deep-Throat-Spray AMAZON

Hanging Out In Our Briefs

Hi,

I'm an 18 year old guy.  My dad and I are staying at a buddy of his for the weekend.  They said to make this a real guys weekend and we should hang out in briefs. This seems weird, do guys really hang out in their briefs?

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Dear 18 year old guy.

Guys hanging out in their underwear is normal.  It's a bonding thing.  No women, Sports on the TV, Drinking beer while hanging out in your underwear...  It's the male version of a slumber party. However, with that said, if you don't feel comfortable hanging out with your dad and his buddy in your underwear... don't.

Others may think differently. Let's ask the audience,  If you have a different opinion please comment below and share your thoughts. 

Thanks for Asking Will.

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Will

Is It Normal To Fantasize About The Same Sex?

Dear Will,

I am a straight married man and I'm very happy with my life.  I had a couple of gay experiences many moons ago and really no immediate desire to have any more at this time, but I find myself waking up to the thought of being with another guy pretty frequently.  I have a great sex life at home so it's not the lack of sex either.  Is this normal and do other guys have these same thoughts and dreams?

Jack

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Dear Jack, 

I believe this is completely normal and many guys have these thoughts, dreams and urges.  Even those who have never experienced being with another guy.  Only most men who identify as being straight will usually suppress the feelings and never tell anyone.  Some will act on it only with a stranger, maybe in a truck stop/book store setting.  Those who are comfortable with their sexuality will explore other worlds.  Some will like it, others wont. A lot of times the ones who do like it are more attracted to the excitement of doing something "wrong" or getting caught.  To each their own. If this is something you want to do, then by all means, do it.  It's your body.  However, if you are in a happy and loving relationship you may want to take that into consideration first.  Is it worth ruining a good thing if she were to find out?  If you talk to her about your feelings you never know, she may want to join in.  

Will

Sex Addiction

Dear Will,

My husband is addicted to sex.  He has been faithful, but is always ready for and wanting sex.  I can't keep up.  If we aren't having sex he is watching porn and taking care of business himself.  What do I do?

Angela 

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Dear Angela,

On a positive note, he is only sexually active with you and not having relations outside of the home. The first thing you should do is talk to him about it.  If this is something you feel that you can't live with there are many options available but he has to want to change before anything will work. When he is ready, there are several behavioral health centers all across the country.  I'm sure there is one in your area.  A great place to begin is Sex Addicts Anonymous.  Google local Sex Addiction Rehab Centers in your area or Mental Health Disorders in your area.

I hope this helps.
Will

https://saa-recovery.org