Dear Will,
I have been single for the past three years but for the past year I have put myself back in the dating scene. I have regularly been seeing three different guys casually. Last weekend one of the guys I am dating brought up "THE talk". He wants to be exclusive. I do like him very much. We have a lot in common and enjoy spending time together. He is perfect. But The other guys are equally great. I enjoy spending time with them all. I do feel that it is time to become exclusive with one guy and stop dating multiple guys, but I don't know who to choose. What do I do?
Jacob
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Dear Jacob,
This is a difficult decision that you have to make and it's one that only YOU can make. My recommendation is to have "the talk" with the other guys and see how they feel. They may not want to be in a committed relationship at all, and then again, maybe they will all want to settle down with you. You need to have that conversation with each of them and then follow your heart. If for nothing else, than to give each one closure.
I wish you the best.
Will
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